Thursday, December 31, 2009

Happy New Year!


Hello and Happy New Year! We are looking forward to a wonderful 2010. Our big Chirstmas present, the Karen Marie, our Schock 34 is the most exciting gift we gave ourselves.The interior of our new boat is in the photo; we have lots of room for storage and living space. We've been busy this week as we transfer things from the old boat to the new boat to get the old boat ready to sell. Can't wait for crusing season to start.
We had a great Christmas time with lots of parties, gatherings, fun, laughter, and fellowship to make us even happier to be on this island. We have a few New Years resolutions: 1.clean out and throw away half our junk; 2. cruise lots and enjoy our new boat; 3.share happiness with our friends! You can notice only one of those has any work involved. We are planning our next big cruise to the Canadian waters to Desolation Sound, farther north than we went last year. And, who knows where else.
Happy New Year to all! The Whidbey Wagners

Friday, December 25, 2009

Merry Christmas




From the Whidbey Wagners


We are having a quiet Christmas this year. Libby is with us from West Seattle, but Missy, Scott and Meg are doing their own thing in SoCal. We are having lots of time to visit with friends and share this time of joy. Our big news is that we bought a new-to-us sailboat. We have a Schock 34 now and we are planning our summer cruising already. Jim will love this boat, too, because it should go very fast when he goes out to race. I get lots of storage room and a better organized cabin and galley. Our first big cruise will be to Desolation Sound in Canadian waters, starting in early June. We will probably get out a few times before that so we can "road" test the Karen Marie. Yes, our boat is back to being the Karen Marie. The last boat was the Karen Marie, Too, but we couldn't bring ourselves to have a Karen Marie, Too, II. We figured everybody would call us Tutu for short!

We haven't even recovered from the last cruise on Holland America, but I keep looking for other bargains. I loved having somebody else run the boat! Libby and I are doing Weight Watchers now to get off the extra pounds we have been adding since Jim and I retired and Libby started going on the road so much. I am doing well, and have lost 13 lbs since the day before Thanksgiving. What a time to start a diet! At least we won't gain too much, we hope. The plan is suredifferent from when I became a Lifetime member in 1985. Lots of great cookbooks and helpful tools, like the eTools online.


Libby is doing well with her consulting business. She just got back from a two week trip to Peru with a group from her church. She went to Machu Picchu and did an extra week in the Amazon seeing all the native plants and animals. She even walked up in the canopy for a mile and a half! We got great Peru presents for Christmas. I got jewelry and a beautiful baby Alpaca scarf/shawl. Her photos are amazing.


Missy and Scott are doing well. Missy is still Chair of the English Dept at her community college, and Scott continues his job working as a mechanical engineer for a company in Anaheim. Megan is in high school! She just made the soft ball team, and we are very excited for her. Missy and Scott are off to Vegas for a weekend visit and a chance to see Bebe King, while Meg has flown to Portland, Or to see her Aunt Suzie. We'll be going down to visit them in January.


Our next family gathering is the July 4th Bash, and this year we are expecting Amanda and husband Toby to fly in from Wisconsin. Mandy is Jim's niece. We hope her brother Brett and family come from Hawaii, too. The regular 4th gathering at the Wagner house has turned into a real family reunion, and we enjoy it so much. This year we have to hope for really good weather to accomodate the many sailings we'll have to give to visitors.


The best to everyone for a great New Year from the Whidbey Wagners.

Sunday, December 13, 2009

Christmas Is Coming and Memories, too

Christmas was coming so fast I didn't have time to post anything. Christmas was coming and now it is here. We are always a little sad at this time of year, missing Karen, who loved Christmas above all holidays. Her gifts were always perfect, and she was generous to a fault, even if she sometimes shopped in discount stores. We were blessed to have her in the middle of the family. Hug your kids tight, kiss your family, and share with your friends. They leave us too soon. The Whidbey Wagners

Friday, November 27, 2009

Happy Thanksgiving and More

Happy Thanksgiving Yesterday! It has been a busy fall for us. Not enough down time and new challenges for the family. After Jim's mother passed away, we came back to get organized for living a life without her. It was and still is a process: we think about her each time we leave home, expecting the call that she has taken a turn for the worse. That's programmed in after 99 years! Of course, we haven't been checking on her that long, but we feel we have committed many years to that worry. Jim called his mother every night and that leaves a hole in his evening hours. Some times she was OK and sometimes she was dreaming and didnt make much sense, but the contact was there. We usually go to southern California for one, if not both, of the major winter holidays, but this year I begged to stay home. We were home yesterday until we went to friends for a Thanksgiving feast. Wow! More about that later. We are also planning to be home for Christmas. We begin our busy winter schedule this weekend with a Taize service and dinner for my EFM group. For those of you who don't know about EFM, it's my Education For Ministry class, a bible study program. Since we are all called to minister, this class teaches us how we might do that or helps us recognize where we already are doing that. The first year we did the Old Testament. This past year we did New Testament. Next year we do church history and the year after that we study theology. Other busy seasonal activities follow from wreath making at a friend's house to the Commodore's Ball at the Yacht Club to a Christmas pot luck with my new Hospice group.

After Karen's death without Hospice and the death of friend, Marilyn Dickens, and Jim's mother with a Hospice team, I decided I wanted to be trained to be a Hospice Volunteer. I took the three day training after we got back from our cruise. I went into it with some reservations, but after the third day I was sure I want to offer my services to sit with someone or help out with a family as they go through the final walk of a loved one. I know it is a very different thing for me to do, but it feels right and I want to do it. I haven't been on a case yet, and I may not have one for a year or more, but I am trained and will meet with the group to share their experiences as they go out on teams. One day I'll be ready and they'll call me.

The other thing I've recently taken on is Weight Watchers. I found a class and a lecturer I like, and I joined the day before yesterday, the Wednesday before Thanksgiving! Some would think that was odd, but I wanted to be ready when we started into the season of eating. I did have to control myself a little at dinner last night. The dinner menu follows:
Appetizers:
Free Form Onion Tart, Cheese and Parmesan Stuffed Dates,
Fennel Spiced Almonds.
Soup:
Celery Leek Bisque with Stilton Toast.
Entrees:
Turkey with Spicy Sausage Stuffing and Turkey Gravy,
Wild Mushroom Bundles, Braised Brussel Sprouts,
Mashed Potatoes Yukon Gold, Sweet Potato Apple Pancake,
Scorched Corn Puddng, Cranberry Cassis Conserve.
Mango Sorbet.
Dessert:
Pumpkin Creme Brulee with Gingersnaps.
We started with sparking Spanish wine with the appetizers, white wine with the soup( 2 kinds),red wine with the turkey( two kinds) and ended with coffee, port and chocolate covered nuts. So, I was good, taking small servings and not having some things. There were so many choices I didn't have a hard time filling up with the vegies. I skipped the onion tart, but I tasted Jim's and it was wonderful. I had one date and a few almonds before dinner. Then I skipped the potatoes and had only other vegies. I had lots to eat and managed to only use 1/2 my extra points for the week! I had to share the menu with you, since it was exactly as advertised in her menu card on each place setting! The table was beautiful, the company was fun and I didn't do anything all day at my house. I didn't even have to cook anything since we took wine and loaned the hostess a few things for the dinner table. What a relaxing day!!!I did this WW thing once before, so I know I can do it gain; I just have twice as much to lose now.

Libby is in Peru for two weeks on a tour. She called yesterday and said she had struggled with the altitude, but was a little better. She was down to 9000 ft, but they will be doing the high mountains soon so I hope she's OK. Her voice sounded happy and excited about her trip, and it was good to hear from her. We also talked to Missy and Meghan. Everybody in SoCal is doing well. The weather is still warm, but Scott has been away from golf for a couple of weeks with a strained shoulder. Meg loves her high school now and the football team got into the playoffs, and they all go the ball games now.
Oh, BTW, we did get a new boat, a Schock 34. It's a little bigger and goes faster so our cruising next summer should be fun. We'll sell our Hunter 30 when we remove all our stuff. The new boat is in Seattle until we get a good day to bring it up to Oak Harbor. Not much sailing weather right now. Much rain!!! Looks like things are doing well for the Wagners. The best to you as we begin the Advent and holiday season. Jim and Virginia on Whidbey Island.

Monday, September 14, 2009

Panama Canal Here We Come!


Hello from Whidbey Island! Our fall has been eventful, starting with late July and into September. As we were returning from our trip into Canadian waters, we heard that Jim's mom was not doing well. As the days went by, we decided we needed to go to SoCal to check on her condition. When we arrived in Chino Hills, we found her changed, less active and quiet. Eventually, she passed away on Aug 21. We were so saddened, but prepared, too. After all, she lived a great 99 years. We returned to the northwest as soon as possible to recover from the anxiety of the past six weeks. We had scheduled a cruise to Alaska on Holland American lines, and when we returned home, a couple we know contacted us to say the rates for cruising through the Panama Canal were real bargains. After some discussion, we decided we would take that cruise this fall. We leave on Sept 26 and will return on Oct 14. We will be home just in time for the diocesan convention the next weekend! As we go on our cruise, I will be posting thoughts on this blog, as well as sending out emails to everyone to let them know where we are and what we are doing. It should be a great trip. Check back soon for the up dates on things! The Whidbey Wagners

Friday, August 14, 2009

Mothers

I wrote a short piece about my mother to use in the church newsletter, but I can't copy it into here. Some electronic block occurs each time I try to copy and paste. That prompts me to retype the whole thing, but I know in my heart of hearts I wrote it because I was thinking about Jim's mother who is leaving this life soon. We are going to Southern California tomorrow to be there with her as she moves on. It is difficult to lose any parent or anyone who is close family, but we experience it in a variety of ways. Sometimes the difficulty is in wishing the person would die and relieve everyone of the anguish of watching the suffering. Sometimes the difficulty is in trying to be sad when there is an absence of feelings, a numbness, because you don't know how you feel about the loss. Sometimes there is a difficulty because you don't want to be in a place where memories are stirred that might need to be left covered over by years and distance.

My mother died sudenly at 87 years old. My brother called and with little emotion told me she had passed away only hours after being taken to the hospital. Her funeral was planned in four days and I needed to get to Florida for the events. We had a wake at the funeral home, an Episcopal memorial service and then we flew to Texas for the graveside service. It was too much to do, but that's what my mother wanted. Her friends and family were there, but my oldest brother couldn't stand the funeral home service or the Texas visit, so he opted out. He missed out on the after funeral reception at the local Mexican restaurant where we all drank margaritas and ate nachos. My mother would have loved it all.

She had given away all her belongings as gifts long before her death. As she got older she would give away anything anyone said they liked. Her favorite phrase was, "Take it, Honey, and enjoy it." Her favorite handpainted china, her glass paperweight collection, her paintings, her art work, her antique furniture-everything went. Her life was all contained in a small apartment that took only a few hours and a trip to the Good Will to give away the last items. When I flew home after the funeral, I didn't have a feeling of burden. I felt light because we had done it all and her life was now memories and love gifts.

Don't get me wrong. We had some tremendous disagreements. I left home at 20 or so and never went back to live there or visit often. My father was an alcoholic and difficult and she protected him until the day he left her. I had learned the correct vocabulary by the time I was 30 years old and I knew enabling when I saw it. Her response was that she loved him; she was a nurse for 50 years and I thought she should have known better. She never recovered from his leaving her; he had ruined her dreams of their future together that she had worked so hard to preserve. She never got over feeling betrayed. I wanted her to go on with her life, and she did, working to support herself until the very end, but I thought she was scarred. Now I can see she was a product of her early life on a small ranch in East Texas and an era when women didn't have much position if they didn't have a man. I still resist that internal voice of hers that tells me the same thing: if something happens to Jim, I'll be nothing.

So, we go now to watch as Jim's mom passes on. She is 99 and has had a good life. I know it won't be as tidy in the end because she didn't prepare like my mother. We'll have lots of things to sort out and organize. Maybe that's OK, too. It'll give us something to think about and work on during the immediate weeks after the death. As a family we'll gather and tell each other stories about Grandma and Granddad Wagner. That will keep us busy and dull the sadness at another generation finished with this life. To Alma Laverne Moorman and Mary Elizabeth Wagner-mothers extraordinare. Peace, The WhidbeyWagners

Monday, July 20, 2009

Lessons Learned-Princess Louisa

Soon after we arrived in Oak Harbor, retired from my work schedule and hoping to stay in touch with friends not living right here, I started this blog. It was originally modeled on a few other blogs created by knitters, showing their work and projects and discussing knitting things. Then it changed into a blog about our family. I hoped it would keep people up to date on what we are doing here on Whidbey, sort of an all year Christmas letter. I was lazy at posting until my friend Elaine in Montana sent me an email and asked if I was going to post to my blog again. She checks it out every week or so to read what we are doing. Then she faithfully sends me an email to tell me she loved reading about our lives here on the island. I try very hard to post at least once a month. Elaine reminds me if I forget.

Yesterday I wrote a long article about our boat trip up into Canadian waters to Princess Louisa Inlet. The article was all about the things we learned in a three week long cruise on a sailboat, things like where to get water and fuel and food and how to fix overheated engines. It was a pretty practical accounting, but embedded in the article was a sentence that got me to thinking. "Being in a group gave us security, fellowship in the evenings, and solutions to problems.

When you plan a cruise of two or more boats, someone usually takes the leader role and starts planning the itinerary and making reservations at marinas. Brynn and Gary, our cruise captains, had a few cruise meetings before we left on June 6, but we only knew the other cruisers casually from other short trips together. In the beginning we were only a loosely organized group of boats with 2 or more crewmembers on board, but as soon as we left the dock, things changed.

First, we stayed in touch with each other regularly. Brynn and Gary established a good pattern of checking in often via radio to give us news about the weather,winds and waves, or to find out if we were still underway and sailing along OK. Like little ducklings we followed along, sometimes changing lead boats, but always keeping in touch. It was comforting to look across the water in the middle of the Strait of Georgia, a big expanse of water, and see three or four boats, our boats, all going the same direction. Some of us sailed more than others and would fall behind, but someone would find that speck on the water in his binoculars and announce to all that "Papillion" had been sighted, flying his spinnaker and taking his time to enjoy the day. Anyone in the lead would radio back and tell us there were big logs being towed by a tug, and we needed to avoid that hazard. Sometimes our radio connections were funny. One morning Brynn, taking on the job of radio announcer, called with information, got confused and ended her call with, Over, Out, Over!" We all laughed and responded with various "Overs and Outs" the rest of the trip.

Second, we took the time to get to know each other. In the evenings we would share dinners and conversation. We had fish and chips at local restaurants, we had pot lucks, we had campfires at marine parks, and we had a progressive dinner. We weren't together in a large group all the time; sometimes it was one on one, or couples who gathered. It seemed like everyone made an effort to share some time together, telling stories about other sailing adventures or swapping ideas on how to fix things, or why we named our boats Misty Isle or Sweet or Papillion or Karen Marie, Too or Spika or Hasenpfeffer. You'd be amazed at how people come up with names for their boats!

Third, we never left anyone behind. One day we had engine trouble and the entire fleet elected to stay with us while we fixed the engine. They sacrificed a day of sailing and time at a good anchorage because we were a group, and the policy was to never leave anyone behind. We missed the slack water at 9AM and had to wait until 4PM for the next one. Another day, when were were slogging against a current, trying to get to Friday Harbor to check in to immigration, Alan on Misty Isle sighted a boat that needed assistance. He went over and tied up to the small boat and towed the man in his boat for two hours. We all slowed down and lazed along in the wake of this good seaman, helping someone out of a difficult situation. We could have gone on to Friday Harbor and waited for Alan, but we stayed together as a group and he was in the group.

The lessons we learn at any time apply to everything in our lives. Friendships are like cruises. We should always stay in touch with each other, take the time to get to know each other better, and never leave anyone behind. That last one is hard, since we all move now and then, but it can be done. Sometimes we need to be reminded about those three standards. I know I do and I am eternally grateful for my friend Elaine who reminds me when I drop out of sight and forget to post to my blog. It's a gentle and loving reminder, but it lets me know she is thinking of me, cares about me and wants to know about me. Every now and then we need to be reminded to take care of those we love. Thank God for Elaine! Peace, Virginia

Thursday, May 28, 2009

Sailing Away




Hello All, that's us in the cockpit of our boat, the Karen Marie, Too. Summer is almost here, and we're getting ready for a long three week cruise into Canada as our first outing this year. We'll be going to Princess Louisa Inlet to see Chatterbox Falls. The photos are amazing, and as one website says, "First you will wind your way along Jervis Inlet. Then through Malibu Rapids (at slack tide) and into the beauty of this breathtaking fabled inlet to roaring Chatterbox Falls, just 3.5 miles from the rapids. It's been described as a "flooded Yosemite Valley" complete with a half-dome mountain!" We'll be going with 7 other boats, all experienced boaters. We probably won't sail very much since the winds will be light, but we may get rain off and on. We call it the June Gloom around here, so the sunny weather we've having now is a reminder of how beautiful it is in the real summer months. We'll have rain gear and layers of clothes to cover all options of sun or showers.
More later as we finish the cruise. The Whidbey Wagners

Wednesday, May 06, 2009

Knitting Afghans

I just finished an afghan. That isn't so unusual, but this afghan is the first real project afghan I've ever knitted. I've thrown stitches on a needle or crochet hook and looped a big thing together and called it an afghan, but my newly finished afghan is work of art. ( Photo forthcoming.)

My friend Janet started the whole thing by inviting me to attend a class at our local knitting shop. I wanted to do something new so I went along. I've knitted lots of socks, and I've knitted sweathers, even one of those bulky Aran things, and I've knitted shawls with feather weight and cobweb soft yarns. but this afghan was a challenge. Some knitters knit mindlessly, never changing the way they knit or what they knit. It's like mind meditation. Others love a new project because it gives them something new to learn and try out, even to the point of failure. I usually fit into the former category, but I was game and went to the class.

The afghan pattern was a new experience for me. It was 12 different squares, all using difficult and challenging patterns. I learned new methods of casting on ( the very beginning technique for a knitter), new ways of increasing and decreasing stitches, lace patterns, cable patterns, entrelac, Fair Isle, (using different colors in special ways), three different kins of pockets, and the best way to knit things together so they don't look like they have a big old seam running down them. I also learned a better way to block the final project so it was smooth and flat, and not lumpy. I was busy knitting my afghan for months and last night I finished it. It was amazing when I threw it down on the rug, spreading it all out to see what it looked like. It was a rectangle, the edges were finished and it was beautiful. Also, it was interesting to look at with all the colors and different patterns for each square. It was soft to touch, and the wool will be very warm to cover feet or a body for napping. It was a wonder to see what I had made with my very own hands. Don't be confused about my bragging; my afghan is not perfect. It has a funny row where the corners on the squares don't match exactly and a few bumps where I know there are errors in the knitting. But, it is a glorious thing to see!

I had help while I worked on my afghan. I had my friendly neighborhood knit shop where I got instruction, and I had the best teacher, Kathy, who reassured and encouraged me all along the way. Also, I had other knitters learning along with me as we shared and compared our work. I had the best atmosphere in which to learn, sitting at the table in the front window of Kathy's knit shop, Oak Harbor Knits. Before this experience, I had struggled alone to figure out patterns, even going online to view video of how to do some knitting technique. I had never been part of a knitting group, and I was surprised at how much I enjoyed it.

As I think about my afghan project, I can't help but draw an analogy to my church. I don't knit in the pews, but I am working on my soul afghan when I am there. I have the same kind of friends and teachers in the church, helping me to make my soul afghan just as beautiful as the wool one. Each time I pray, study, read the Bible, or learn a new idea about salvation, my soul afghan gets a new square, a new place to store happiness and the knowledge of Christ. Just as I give thanks for the wool afghan I knitted, I can give thanks that the "Lamb of God" has given me the wool of friends and a congregation to make my soul just as intricate, as interesting and as beautiful. Thanks be to God for friends, teachers, congregations and knitters who help me make my life the beautiful pattern it can be.

Update: I just finished a wool scarf, but I'm itching to get started on another big project!

Monday, May 04, 2009

April, where did you go?

Notes on Friendship

What a wretched lot of old shriviled creatures we shall be by and by. Never mind the uglier we get in the eyes of others, the lovlier we will be to each other; that has always been my firm faith about friendship. George Elliot

Friendship is essentially a partnership. Aristotle

Skagit Valley Tulip Festival is going on, and the tulips are too beautiful.


Mother's Day is coming. To all mothers and friends who mother, blessings on you.

Wednesday, March 11, 2009

Is Spring Ever Coming?

Hello All:

We know we shouldn't complain about the weather when we have friends in Eastern Washington, Montana and New Hampshire who are covered, literally covered, in snow and sleet and other nasty winter weather, but we are complaining a little bit. Today it is cold, cold, unlike normal March weather, but we do have sunshine. Jim was just told to raise the front window shade because the cat wanted to bask in the unusual sun coming in that window. Welcome Spring! Please come.

Yesterday Jim and I were discussing how busy we are since we retired. It is amazing to me that we find any time to relax since we have so many activities. And, we can't get it all done. I've jokingly said I want to tell people I left town and not go--just stay home and do stuff here that I can't get done otherwise. We were in Seattle yesterday; I had a diocesan meeting and Jim went shopping at the boat store. We had spent the night with Libby, having a great dinner out and looking at her photos of her trip to New Zealand. She brought me four hanks of marino as a present and I plan to make scarves for our treat. She brought Jim this wonderful marino long underwear shirt, softer than cashmere and tiny, tiny threads. Wonderful for sailing in cool weather.

Our new interim preached a sermon about the new "fangled " idea of taking on something for Lent, but I had written the following piece before that. Too bad, I liked the learning that went on!

A Prayer Life

1Thess 5: 16-18 Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.

Sometimes I don’t think I’m very good at praying. I pray, but sometimes it seems like a long list of “I wants and I’m sorrys.” And, there is always the order and kind of prayer to be concerned about. Where do you do it? And what form does it take? I worry about doing it right so it will be most effective. You know, if you approach in just the right way, God will be more likely to listen and respond. As Lent begins this year, I am trying again to add something, that sacrifice of adding something spiritual to my life rather than giving up something. This year I am making a commitment to prayer in a different way.

In Phyllis Tickle’s book, The Shaping of a Life-A Spiritual Landscape, she shares her spiritual history from her young days as a newly wed to the beginning of her married life with her first child. As I was reading it for our Book Group, I kept finding places where she led the reader to how and what prayer is in her life. Those examples were imbedded in her story, from finding her mother in prayer each afternoon to being caught praying the Psalms before teaching her classes at her place of employment. Not only did she pray, but she was always on the look out for a process of prayer. In the end she says she found a breviary, a book of the daily office, like our own daily prayers of Morning Prayer, Noontime Prayers, Evening Prayer and Compline. As I read and studied her book, one specific idea about prayer jumped out at me.
Phyllis was having a discussion with her neighbor, Mr.King, an elderly retired missionary.
One day she asks him, “ What do you think really happens when we pray…?
‘Happens’? he repeated. ‘I guess the best answer is ‘What was the Mount of Transfiguration?’
‘You mean we are transformed?’
‘Good heavens, no that’s not at all what I meant!’…’What I mean is that prayer is a place, and Peter and James and John just happened to catch Jesus while he was in it.’…You can’t go there as long as you don’t recognize that the spirit works, because it’s made of spirit.”

That made me stop in my tracks. A prayer place was different than I had imagined. Before I read her book, I would say prayer happened in a quiet, reverential place, like churches and prayer groups and monasteries and synagogues and mosques and convents and all those places where spiritual people gathered. Those were the designated prayer places. And, of course, in my living room every morning when I have my quiet time. It seemed to be in places we set aside or in places of great drama. Hospitals and emergency rooms come to mind.

But that’s not what Mr. King said. He said we are praying because we are in a place where the spirit is. Where is the spirit? Everywhere, right? In me and you and in everyone who wishes to acknowledge the Holy Spirit’s life in them. So, at any given time, I am in prayer. My actions are a prayer, my rest is a prayer, my life being lived is a prayer. Some days my prayers are better than other days, but it is all a prayer.

That doesn’t mean I can give up on my Lenten commitment, but it does mean I should start to recognize my life is more than just walking through my days without any acknowledgment of that prayer going on. Now if I’m talking to a woman at the pool about her hip surgery and I say, “I hope you feel better soon,” that’s a prayer. And, if I say, “Have a good day,” to the lady in the check out line, that’s another prayer. If I serve a meal to someone, if I remember to do my husband’s laundry, even if I remember to be quiet and think about the beauty of the day, it’s all a prayer. If I accept the Holy Spirit is with me, then it is all a prayer.

My Lenten sacrifice has changed. Now rather than going into a quiet place to read a prayer list or pray prescriptive prayers, I am challenging myself to become aware and tuned in to the many times each day I am given a chance to pray, using the Holy Spirit within me to reach out and for others. I’ll still have my quiet time each day, I’ll still attend services to meet the community with whom I worship, but for Lent I will dedicate special attention to the prayer I can become to the world around me. Maybe it’ll become a habit after six weeks!
Blessings on our friends and neighbors. The Whidbey Wagners


Tuesday, February 10, 2009

Happy Birthday

Today is Karen's birthday. We miss her smile, her laughter and her spirit. We miss her everything.

All Is Well
by
Rosamunde Pilcher

Death is nothing at all. It does not count.
I have only slipped away into the next room.
Nothing has happened.
Everything remains exactly as it was.
I am I, and you are you, and the old life that we lived so fondly together is untouched, unchanged.
Whatever we were to each other, that we are still.
Call me by the old familiar name.
Speak of me in the easy way which you always used.
Put no difference into your tone.
Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow.
Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes that we enjoyed together.
Play, smile, think of me, pray for me.
Let my name be ever the household word that it always was.
Let it be spoken without an effort, without the ghost of a shadow upon it.
Life means all that it ever meant.
It is the same as it ever was.
There is absolute and unbroken continuity.
What is this death but a negligible accident?
Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight?
I am but waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near, just around the corner.
All is well.

Tuesday, January 06, 2009

Happy New Year! The Wise Men Arrive Today!

Welcome to the New Year. The Whidbey Wagners hope you have a good one! Today is the Feast of Epiphany, so I think I'll fill you in on the situation at our church. I read lots of blogs about the goings on in the world of Anglicanism, but today I read a prayer for bloggers! It says it is from the Prayer Book; it is probably for all writers, but it fits, so here goes:

"Almighty God, you proclaim your truth in every age by many voices: Direct, in our time, we pray, those who speak where many listen and write what many read; that they may do their part in making the heart of this people wise, its mind sound, and its will righteous; to the honor of Jesus Christ our Lord."

Two years ago, 2007, we started the year off at St Stephen Episcopal with our new priest, Rachel Taber-Hamilton. As we walked through the last two years, we grew in number and in faith. We started out feeling sorry for ourselves, meeting in the chapel next door to the "biggggg" church, and angry at our Bishop for abandoning us, and so happy to have a building of any size because we had outgrown all our homes. We also were very happy to have Rachel who had taken on our problems with great energy and honesty. As the months went on she provided guidance and pastoral care for us, finally bringing us to see the PALS, as she taught us to call them, as the "People Across the Lot" rather than other ugly names. We let go of our fury at being shuffled aside and started talking about what we want to be. I'm not sure we have any better direction for that, but some things have changed to make us shift our vision of ourselves.

We are limited in space by a room that is 19x19. No lying, it is the size of a two car garage, and we have made it our own sanctuary. The whole building was consecrated in the middle 50's and then later All Saint's Chapel was made into a Columbarium some time after the main congregation moved across the way. It was dusty, dirty, and uncared for when we moved in two years ago. Now it is decorated, loved, rearranged and our own special place. We have all the acoutrements of a full sized church. Vestments, altar hangings, banners, prayerbooks, hymnals, chalices, and Sunday School supplies. However, now we don't have a priest. We were saddened when Rachel told us in October that she was moving away to Maine to become a Hospital Chaplain. We accepted it and pulled up our socks and continued to be church. It hasn't been easy. We have had several different priests to supply on Sundays. We are far away from the center of Seattle, so we don't get the vibrant new guys; we get the older, wonderful priests, but it does seem like they are making a huge effort to get here. Some times I worry that one of them will have a heart attack on the way home!

Sometimes I worry no one will want us as a permanent position! After all we are a special problem church. We have grown -almost 4 times in less than two years. That is amazing! We have a great pledge base. Everyone gives to our budget, but we don't have enough to pay a full time priest yet. We think if we can grow a little more, we can manage that. Our problem is space. We are cramped and even going to two services, we can't fit everyone in. You see, we like each other and we want to go to church together. We are accustomed to being physically close because we were in homes for a year and a half. We squeezed into lots of living rooms that could barely hold us. And, still people kept coming. If people would truly spread out and go to both services, we could hold on a little longer, but most everyone wants to go to the 11AM service. Jim and I hold down the 9AM service and we average 8 or so there. The rest of the group, anywhere from 25-35 squish into the space that really only holds 28 comfortably. What to do? A member of our Vestry is a Realtor and he has approached the PALS to ask if they will move their Pastor's Office, their Pastor's library and their Parish Office out of the Chapel and let us have the whole thing. We also want the portable building out back of us, which has two rooms for our office and Sunday School Room. We could really double in size if we had that arrangement.

Everything happens so slowly. I lose patience, and I get depressed about it. We have struggled for so long, and when we confront those in the diocese who seem surprised at our situation, they are astonished that we even exist. No one expected us to be here. No one thought we would stick it out. No one thought they would have to deal with us. So, here we are, beginning a new year and praying and hoping for something to happen that will free us to be what we have been called to be for Oak Harbor. I am challenged every day about what I can do for myself and the church. I am on the Altar Guild, the WebMaster, and I develop special liturgy activities for the church. I am also on the Diocesan Standing Committee. I am getting burn out, I think. A vacation looks better and better all the time. Our core group works hard, but we have been holding on for a long time.

Hitting that brick wall gets down right funny now and then. Last Sunday we had a new visitng priest. We have vestments and stoles for all the seasons, but the last priest always brought his own. So, we go to the early service and the guy shows up without a stole. I am frantically dragging out all the banker boxesin the library under the table to see if one of them was hidden away somewhere. I called the Altar Guild Prez and she has a bad cold and doesn't really care if I find a stole or not and she and her husband overslept! We have things in a garage storage place, but I don't have the keys and in reality, we know the woman who does all the sewing for the Altar Guild has all that stuff at her house and she lives 40 minutes away. So, he did the early service without a stole, and he promised he'd bring his own next time. I was embarassed and horrifed because we really do have beautiful things we have gathered the last two years. But, and it is a big but, we have NO WHERE to store anything where we can get to it. Pray for us as we go through the next year of finding a priest and hopefully finding more room. We need a blessing to happen for us.

Pray for Peace in Israel. Virginia W.

Sunday, December 28, 2008

Oh, Joy!




Happy Holidays from The Wagners

The house is decorated, we are getting the gifts ready, and every day is more exciting as we wait for the arrival of the entire family for our Christmas celebration. Libby will be over from West Seattle; Missy, Scott and Meg will be here from SoCal; and Rich and Pam will arrive from Longview. It will be a fun Christmas morning at the Wagner house!

Again, we’ve been busy this year with our regular activities of boating, visitors and church, but we had some highlights. We went on a week long riverboat cruise on the Columbia River, following the Lewis and Clark trip. We went through 8 locks! Missy and Scott came for 4th of July again, but this year it was a double celebration. They bought a house on Whidbey Island with the idea to rent it now and be prepared for when they retire, spending the summers here and the winters down south. That way Scott’ll get in the best golf all year round! We had several trips out in our boat. The most exciting was a trip down the Hood Canal. It was very beautiful scenery and lots of fun with our sailing group going along for support and pot lucks. In September we went on a pilgrimage to Jerusalem. Actually we went all over Israel and parts of Palestine. It was an amazing trip, making us very aware of how much we must pray for peace in the Middle East. We learned about the delicate balance they maintain with so many faiths and different attitudes all claiming the same space. It was a trip of a lifetime.

We came back from the Middle East for knee surgery for Virginia to fix some old torn ligaments and scar tissue from her surgery over ten years ago. She’s doing PT now to prepare for our rigorous trips out in the boat next summer and fall. The surgery was just before Thanksgiving and just in time to be healed enough for Jim to make a trip back east to see his buddies from high school. He missed his 50th reunion while we were in Jerusalem and his oldest guy friends gather each year after Thanksgiving. He flew to Philly and then drove to Allentown and did the tour around and eating real Yocco hotdogs and real Philly cheese steak sandwiches!

Grandma Wagner is 98 and doing well. She lives in a retirement home in Chino Hills, CA very close to Missy. We try to get down as often as we can, but having Missy there gives us reassurance that things are going well. Grandma loves it when Meg goes over and shows her the latest computer movie Meg has directed and filmed. These films usually star Meg’s friends, the dogs, or anyone else who walks by. They show real talent, and we may have another movie maker in the family. By the way, Brett’s film, Chief, went to the Sundance Film Festival and the LA Film Festival where he won first place. That means his film can be nominated for an Oscar! Way Cool!

We wish we had nephew Brett and his wife Katherine with new baby Zoë with us for Christmas, but they are going to New York to celebrate with her mother. Niece Amanda and her husband Toby are busy with Amanda’s residency in vet school, and niece Bridget and her husband Walter are in Germany where Walter has an Air Force assignment.

Our plans for the summer include cruising to the Canadian waters, the Gulf Islands, and up to Desolation Sound. We will have our regular July 4th picnic, but we plan longer cruises and more days on the water than last year. In the spring we plan camping trips with friends, the Liebmans; they bought a new trailer and we bought their old 24 ft trailer. We can go 6 miles and be in great campsites around here; we don’t even have to leave the island. It looks like a great year for us. We hope your New Year will be the best!

Blessings and Cheers from the Whidbey Wagners.

Sunday, November 23, 2008

Happy Thanksgiving





may God's blessings be with you today and always.

Psalm 136:26

"O give thanks to the God of heaven,

for his steadfast love endures forever."



Jim and Virginia Wagner





Thursday, October 30, 2008

Our trip to Jerusalem and October

We are back! As you may know, we have been back since Sept 22. As soon as we got home several things happened. Jim had caught a cold while we were away, and he gave it to me! Of course, I got it all, cold and bronchitis. That took three weeks to finally get over! Then, at the same time, I was taking care of a very sore knee. It's the same knee I tore out 12 years ago, and I'm not surprised that I have wrenched it again. The ACL is in good shape, but I've torn up some other stuff. After weeks of waiting to see if it got better and using ice and meds, I had an MRI and now I go off to the orthopedic doc. Isn't it nice that he's in my Bible Study class!! All of that makes this post very late for October. In order to catch up, I am going to post two short essays I wrote for the church newsletter. They'll give you an idea about the trip to the Holy Land and how I responded. I hope you enjoy them. V. P.S. We also learned our beloved Pastor Rachel is leaving us. She'll preach her last sermon for us on Sunday!

Traveling Stories-The Wadi Qelt

5:30AM-That morning we were asked to have breakfast between 5 and 5:30 AM so we could be on the road before sunrise. Jim and I had set our clocks wrong and jumped up two hours early; after we munched a pita bread and cheese and drank a quick cup of coffee, we napped on the bus. There were 25 of us, but the group was quiet on the bus. We were told to bring our prayer books, our hats, and water and to wear good walking shoes. The bus parked along side the road, and we started the walk up a rocky hill, covered with loose stones and bigger rocks. We reached the top of the hill to see over into a valley, dropping down steeply below. We walked along the edge of a steep ravine; I had my hand on Jim’s shoulder in front of me as we walked the narrow path. It was steep and I felt the fear that I could plunge over the edge. I kept my head down and my eyes on the rocky path in front of me until we reached the level spot on a point, looking over to the place where Jesus might have sat in his time of temptation. We were there to feel the presence of Christ.

Iyad, our guide, said quietly, “I know some of you had to deal with fear as you came here. It is good sometimes to have fear. Now we will share our morning prayers and then we will be silent. We have forty-five minutes and the Bedouins will come.” We read our morning prayer together and then there was quiet, each of us finding a place to sit or stand apart from each other.

6:30AM-The sun rose orange over the edge of the hills. All around were cream colored hills, rolling like waves into the desert. The silence was complete. There was no noise from any city, planes, music, humans, only the occasional rock fall over the edge of the hillside, bouncing down the side of the cliff. No birds sang; no animal cried out. The silence was like a wave on my ears, allowing me to hear my heart beat. The hills were lined with paths made by sheep or goats, crisscrossing the steep edges. Small rust colored bushes dotted the hills, and only in the deep valley did we see a few green trees, scrubby blotches on the golden expanse below. The breeze turned cool, waiting for the noon day heat of 100 degrees or higher. The silence was a gift after the chatter of our voices. I was glad I over came the fear to be there on the mountaintop to begin one of our last days in the Holy Land.

7:45 AM-I sat and prayed for our group, for our church, for my friends and for myself. I looked at the hillside and thought about the trip and what it had meant to me. Each day was a revelation of some ancient truth about Christ and this land. The group had spread out around me, as we watched the sun rise higher and higher in the sky. We were silent.
Then, I heard a strange, low animal rumble, growing louder and deeper. I turned and looked behind me. There on the hillside was a camel and the Bedouins. They had arrived so quietly, we had not heard them. They were sitting above us on the hillside, watching and waiting for our silent time to finish so they could offer us camel rides. The Arab boys had come, too, with their donkeys. A one armed Bedouin held bone necklaces over his arm, selling them for $10. Another sold scarves, traditional Arab head pieces for men. We all burst into laughter, and picked our way back along the edge to get back on the bus. We bought necklaces, head scarves and other souvenirs, jolted back into the 21 Century, and away from our visit waiting on the hillside with Christ.
It was a morning to remember, thinking about Jesus in that landscape and knowing his isolation on his hillside. It was one of many mornings when I saw Him as a man, walking the hillsides and valleys of his birthplace. It was a reminder that I should go apart from others now and then and wait for the silence before the Bedouins of my life activities arrive to distract me from His presence.

Traveling Stories-Ramallah

St Andrews Church and The Evangelical Episcopal School

Their faces were the faces of children everywhere: five year olds with curly hair, straight hair, blonde hair, or clipped short black hair. They smiled and looked frightened at the strange people waving at them; we were Americans who had come to visit their kindergarten class. We smiled and tried to be reassuring, but few spoke to us, and all seemed shy in that first room. Sharon Beck from St A’s went right in to the next room of first graders and gave a high five to a young boy, drawing him into a conversation. In the fourth grade class they were studying English, writing in workbooks. Rachel and I went up to speak to the teacher and she told us about their needs. In every place we asked what we could do. Everyone wants money, the answer to so many of their problems, but I wanted something tangible to take back to the parish to tell our members. When I mentioned English dictionaries, the young teacher looked surprised and then said that would be a great idea. We agreed 35 would be a good number. In another room, the first graders entertained us with dancing and an Arabic version of, “If you’re happy and you know it clap your hands.” They giggled and wiggled and jumped just like every first grade class you’ve ever seen, except they all wear uniforms, colored T-shirts to show the different grades. The 8th graders had written essays about the struggles of their grand-parents in the war between Israel and Palestine. They were heart wrenching stories about separation and loss and death. These were Palestinian children, and they only know they can not travel to Jerusalem even if they have a grandmother living there. Outside during recess, four eighth grade boys posed for photos, grinning and looking like pre-teens everywhere, but they, too, wore uniforms, black pants and white colored shirts.

The principal was open about their struggles to maintain the school. Muslim and Christian children study together and only separate for religion classes, and only 30% are Christian. They have room to board as many as 97 children who need an education, orphans or children from refugee camps, but they are not allowed to bring in children from outside any more. Today they only have 10 living at the school. They know of needy children in Jordan and elsewhere, but they are banned from entering the Palestinian area.

We were in Ramallah where they never see tour buses because it is supposed to be dangerous there. Ramallah was once the headquarters of Yasser Arafat, the Nobel Peace Prize laureate, icon and long-time face of the Palestinian cause. Now few tourists come to visit their city. People waved at us as we went by in the bus, smiling at the surprise of a tour bus in the middle of their busy streets. We were in the heart of Palestine. “Israel has occupied the West bank and Gaza Strip (about 2,200 square miles) since the 1967 6-day war, and has built settlements with a population of about 220,000, mostly in the West Bank.” In 1993 Israel limited “the flow of Palestinian workers to Israel to prevent infiltration of terrorists, and by strict checks at border checkpoints. The border closing drastically reduced the Palestinian standard of living…Checkpoints around Jerusalem made it difficult for Palestinians to get to work in Jerusalem and to travel between Palestinian towns…. In March of 2002, Israel launched operation Defensive Wall in the West Bank and has since reoccupied most of the territories ceded to the Palestinians in the West Bank. (They)… set up additional checkpoints and (have) kept towns under virtual siege with extended periods of curfew, disrupting work, education and daily life. Ditches surround towns, preventing people from leaving…A security barrier [Apartheid Wall] being built inside the West Bank cuts off Palestinians from their lands and from other towns, and destroys olive groves and other property…. The route of the fence has been changed several times under international pressure.”
In the midst of this national tension, the message we were given by children and adults, both Muslim and Christian was: “Tell the world, we want peace.” They live in peace, going about their work and studies every day. They worship at their chosen places, they celebrate their special days, and they raise their families just as they have always done. They all know their leaders must see the need for peace before anything can change in their lives. They know it will be an exceptional leader who will lead them into a peaceful coexistence with those of other faiths. Perhaps that leader will come from that school we visited. Perhaps he or she will be one of those sweet faces we saw when we visited Ramallah and the Evangelical Episcopal School.

Thursday, September 04, 2008

A Pilgrim in the Holy Land

Hello Everyone! I have created another blog for our trip to the Holy Land. We'll be posting almost every day. Our priest, Rachel Taber-Hamilton, will be adding comments and so will I. Maybe other people, too. Check in and see where we have been and where we're going. Go to http://pilgrimagetotheholyland.blogspot.com/ Pray for peace in Jerusalem!

Thursday, August 28, 2008

The End of Summer

Hello from Whidbey Island! You can see why we are on the water so often. One photo is anchoring in Hunter Bay on Lopez Island and the other is going under the Hood Canal Bridge. It is un-believably beautiful up here. Our summer is going fast. We may get one more trip in before September but today it is raining, and we aren't that encouraged to go out. Last weekend we were camping at Ft Casey, watching the ferry to Pt Townsend come in and out. Our good and long time camping buddies, Jill and Bruce Liebman, have been trying to get us out there since we returned to the northwest. We loved the campfires and all the good meals we cooked on the grill and in our pop up camper. We were so
close to home that we ran back and forth to get the mail and newspapers. That wasn't such a good idea. Although, with gas prices, we can be thrifty and go to five campsites right here on Whidbey Island, enjoying both the outdoors and the beauty of nature. After the visitors in July, we got right out there on the water, and usually we would spend most of the month of September cruising in the San Juans and north into BC, but this year we are going on a pilgrimage to the Holy Land. We leave Sept 9 and return on Sept 22. Our trip is being led by the husband of Rachel, our priest, Nigel Taber-Hamilton, a Brit and a past travel agent. He has us organized and already we are making plans for the great spiritual gifts we'll receive because of our trip. We went to St Mark's Cathedral for a commissioning by Bishop Nedi Rivera-we are certified pilgrims now! We have been given lists of things to do as pilgrims and ways to behave as pilgrims. As soon as I told my EFM group (my Bible Study group) someone asked if I would keep a blog. If I can figure out how to do this, I will. We were not planning to take a computer, but we might have to do that so I can send emails to everyone. We begin our trip in Seattle, flying to Atlanta and then to Tel Aviv. Then a short drive to Jerusalem will begin our trip. We'll be staying at Saint George’s College, an Anglican college in Jerusalem. That will be our home base for day trips out and about. We'll also spend three nights at the Sisters of Nazareth Convent in Nazareth while we visit around that area. I have my tour guides, my camera, a new passport and good walking shoes. I should be ready to go. If you pray, please pray for my back where my sciatic nerve is kicking up a fuss. I hope I can walk when I get off the airplane.

On this rainy day in the Northwest, we again give thanks that we live here. Our best from the Whidbey Wagners.



Thursday, July 24, 2008

July/August Guests and Cruising





Hello from Whidbey Island! As you can see, we are at the height of our blooms in the garden. We are also at the end of the company this summer. We started with a great 4th picnic with 20 people here at the house, with 10 staying over. Of course, Missy and Scott were here, but this year we also got Meghan. Libby was over and her friends, Martha and Tom, and Shay and Jason, also came from Pt Angeles and Seattle, respectively. Pam and Rich came from Longview, (Pam is so cute!)and we also hosted the Liebmans, Bruce and Jill, with Kendra and Scott and kids, Kristen, Jake and Connor. It was fun, tiring, and at the end, it seemed like a boarding house. We ate, had amazing fireworks, both at the house and in Oak Harbor; from our patio, we had the perfect view. Scott was in charge and did a bang up(!) job. We have our favorites, the Toot and Twirl still ranks highest.


The next weekend we hosted Libby's friend Eva and her two girls from Knoxville, Tenn. for three days. They went all over the island, Fort Casey and the Lighthouse, to Friday Harbor to the Whale Museum, and to the Chochookum Festival in Langley. It was a great visit for them. Libby was tour guide, so Jim and I had a few minutes to make arrangements for the next meal. He bought live crabs and at my insistance cooked them outside; that really worked well, and we'll do that again when we have live crabs.


This past week end, Debbie Miller and boys, Nick and Joe arrived for five days. (See photos above!) We went to see the Beauty and the Beast play in Mt Vernon, visited with the Liebmans for a short swim and playtime with their grandkids, and went to our great Deception Pass Beach. What fun! They also got a day in at the Whale Museum where they bought those huge animals you see above! The biggest hit for everyone was the bad minton net and the croquet, although we have been told we need to upgrade the croquet set. We'll ask for that for Christmas! The back yard is the best place for everyone and if you are younger than 50, everyone enjoys it. I mentioned we might sell the house in 10 years and there was a general uproar that we could never sell as it is the place everyone wants to visit. Oh, well. Debbie's boys eat my food like I am the gourmet chef of all times. This year it was the lasagna that did it. Debbie keeps saying we need to open a B & B because we have great breakfasts, but that is a NO! We'll do it for friends but not forever. Her boys now have requests ready when they get here!


Scott and Missy were really thrilled with their new house. If you didn't know it, they bought a house in April about 3 miles from us in north Oak Harbor. They hadn't seen it, and relied on us to recommend it or not. They loved it, and yesterday, hallelujah, it was rented. (It was used over the 4th for an overflow overnight spot. Next year if we have that overflow problem, we'll have to move somebody to the boat. ) We think they got great renters; the lady was already worried about the lawn being too dry. While Scott was here, he got in two rounds of golf at the country club and loved it. He is ready to retire and has the golf course to fit the summer months. He met some great guys who encouraged him to join the club and explained the social membership. We are making plans to join in the near future.

Before the guests arrived for the 4th, Jim had finished refacing the top cupboards in the kitchen, including cherry cabinet doors. Very beautiful, too! (Photos later.)After Eva and before Debbie, he finished the bottom set. I helped a little with sanding, etc., but he did most of the work. It is amazing how good they look. We are now eager to get to the next project, but that'll have to wait until October, since summer is slipping away and we have plans to get out and about.


We are off to go cruising next week, hitting our favorite spots and marinas, starting with Rosario Resort on Orcas Island. It's a good trip for us since we don't have to pay to anchor out! We will not be available most of August we hope, especially since we are going to be gone Sept 9-23 to go on our tour of the Holy Land. We are getting excited about that.

After all the guests, we are finally getting back on our diets to try to lose another 10 lbs before we take off to the Holy Land. Debbie and I had a great talk about clothes to wear on our trip and then I ordered some things from an online source. It could be hot and Jim can only wear long pants and not jeans.

The weather here is absolutely perfect, 75 degrees, bright and sunny and cool in the evenings. We are so happy we live here. Blessings on you all and have a great summer. I'll probably post right before we leave for Jerusalem, and then after we are home. Good Day! The Whidbey Wagners

Wednesday, June 25, 2008

June is Gone!





(Meg at Softball Camp.)


Hello From Whidbey Island!


Again I am late in posting. Next month, I'll probably post three times -once after each guest group leaves. That's the plan for the next month: lots of company! Jim is busy getting the kitchen cabinets ready for the refacing we should receive today. We are waiting for somebody to deliver the new doors and the covering for the cabinets. We are waiting.....I am counting out sheets, towels and blankets for the many beds we'll fill over the next weeks. And, I'm cooking and doing laundry.

Here's what's going on up here. We are having a big July 4th party, and this year we get to have four couples Libby has invited over the last three years. They all decided they could come this year! Scott and Missy and Meg arrive on June 29 to stay the week. The other guests arrive starting on Jul 3. (Libby on Jul 2) We are putting people in the guest rooms, the Garden Room, Missy and Scott's house, and the pop up camper. (We even have a dog coming along for a visit!) We are so happy to include our son-in-law Rich and his wife Pam as members of the 4th party. We'll be 18-20 people for the BBQ, I think?? The number keeps changing. We'll have all the regular food and fireworks and hopefully nice enough weather for a sail during the day. The boat is scheduled to leave at noon and return in time for BBQ at 4PM. We'll send that group off on the 5th and welcome a new group, Libby's friend, Eva, and her two girls for 4 days beginning the 11th. We'll send them out and about on Whidbey Island and over to Friday Harbor for a visit to the Whale Museum. There's lots to do here. They'll leave on the 15th and our friend Debbie Miller and her two boys arrive on the 19th for 5 days. We'll take them to see Beauty and the Beast in Mt Vernon and spend a day at the animal park in Sequim (if we can get a ferry reservation). They plan to go to the Whale Museum, too. That week will be Whidbey Island Race Week so there will be lots of boats to see, racing up and down Penn Cove with their spinnakers flying.

To get ready for all this, we have replaced the bi-fold doors on the pantries in the kitchen, bought a new sofa for the family room, and Jim added a window and a ceiling fan to the Garden Room. We are still planning to add the wall board out there, but the window has changed everything and seemed the priority as we were making a work schedule. And, we are hoping we get the top cabinets done for the 4th...if they arrive in time.

We also added geraniums to all the pots outside and the window boxes in the front. Things are finally blooming and we are hoping spring will finally get here. The sun shines off and on but it is still very cool. The local strawberries are not out yet; somebody said we are three weeks late on everything this year. We'll eat good food for all the visits and include crab and salmon since that's what they all want. I'm doing some things ahead of time and saving wear and tear on my body.
In August we'll be sailing lots and have no plans for company. The weather should be great for cruising around in the San Juans.

We are still holding our own at the church, but now we are talking about how to grow spiritually and spending less time on the worry about the building. That is a Bishop worry, and we need to let him do that.

I am knitting all the time, one thing and another. I have socks going all the time, and now I have started another shawl. I finished a bag for a friend and it has to be felted. Then, I'll begin a sweater for somebody. We'll see. I also knitted two baby sweaters for babies in Africa, a project the local Methodist church is doing. It's the 5-hr sweater and really is easy, but pretty, too. I'm using up lots of acrylic yarn for that since it can be washed so easily.

Hope you are having a great summer-spring-whatever it is at your house. Happy 4th of July, The Whidbey Wagners.